Where you are · 15 pages

Where you are

Starting points written for the situation you are actually in.

CAREGIVERS

Caring for someone who can't care for themselves

California pays family caregivers to take leave, funds free respite and counseling through Caregiver Resource Centers, and therapy has a specific job here.

STUDENTS

College students — you already paid for some of this

Campus counseling is prepaid, off-campus therapy is coverable, and your parents don't have to know. The student routes, mapped.

LGBTQ+

Finding a therapist who gets it — LGBTQ+ Californians

California bans conversion therapy for minors and protects affirming care. How to vet a therapist in one consult call, plus the free layer.

FIRST-GEN

First in your family to do this

When you're the first — to college, to a career, to America — therapy carries extra freight: family guilt, translation duty, "we don't do that.

MEN

For men who were taught not to need this

Men die by suicide at 4x the rate of women and go to therapy half as often. A practical, no-performance route in.

DIVORCE

Going through a divorce

A top-five life stressor and a legal marathon at once. What therapy helps with at each stage, and what it costs when money is already tight.

LATE NIGHT

It's late and you can't sleep

For the 2am search. What you can do right now, what can wait until morning, and one form you can fill out tonight.

JOB LOSS

Just lost your job

The 60-day insurance decision (COBRA vs Covered California vs Medi-Cal), keeping your therapist through it, and why the spiral after a layoff is worth treating.

FIRST TIME

Never done this before

No experience needed. What the first session is like, what it costs, and a directory where every listing actually has openings.

POSTPARTUM

New baby, and you don't feel like yourself

Postpartum depression and anxiety are common and treatable. Screening is your right, therapy is covered, and leave laws protect you.

NEW TO CALIFORNIA

New to California

Your out-of-state therapist usually cannot keep seeing you once you move. The license rule, the day-one Medi-Cal fact, and how to rebuild care here.

GRIEF

Someone died, and everyone else went back to normal

Grief isn't a disorder — and sometimes it still needs help. When therapy makes sense, what hospice programs offer free, and who to call.

VETERANS & MILITARY

Veterans and military families — the routes nobody briefs you on

VA care, Vet Centers (free, no enrollment), TRICARE, and community therapists — four parallel routes. Which one fits, and how to start each.

ENTERTAINMENT

Working in entertainment, between jobs again

Gig income, union hours you re-earn yearly, rejection as a job description. The industry's own mental health machinery, most of it free, and who qualifies.

TECH

Working in tech and running on empty

Layoff dread, golden handcuffs, on-call that follows you to bed, a 60-day visa clock. The tech version of burnout, and the routes already in your benefits.